Posted in August 2013

In Response

I’m not a divorcee after a 16-year marriage, (not that I hope to ever be one! Na’udzubillah min dzalik), hell, I’m not even married to begin with. But I suppose there’s no harm adding my 2 cents’ worth of response to this post: http://jamesrusselllingerfelt.wordpress.com/2013/08/15/beautiful-advice-from-a-divorced-man-after-16-years-of-marriage/ Some of which I have discovered while being in this 9-year … Continue reading

Ombre Rindu

            I don’t know what I was doing on the laptop but tetiba (konon macam kene possessed by a hantu eh?) that and I started looking at ombre dresses. So far no bridals have gone for this and I wonder why! Ada tak ombre songket? Hahaha. I’d pick ombre over … Continue reading

Quickie

You just gotta applaud these Malaysians for taking wedding plannings to a higher level. Giant doilies for a pelamin backdrop! Pretty cool! What’s next, bunga manggar the size of pokok kelapa? Can’t wait to see more from them. Come on Singapore vendors, time to step up the game, yo!

Salam Syawal

It’s the 7th day of Syawal and so before I hegeh-hegeh taugeh then terlambat lagi, I’d like to mohon maaf atas segala silap salah to all my BDBs and BTBs! I hope all of you have had at least a meaningful celebration. For some it’s a new beginning as a wife or an expecting mummy, … Continue reading

Burnout.

Yes; I am still alive. Yes, I’m still engaged. Yes, I still do think of our wedding (it never leaves my mind). And yes, I’m still a fat whale. But I have done absolutely nothing for the wedding. Now I’ve heard of BTBs having the burnout as they get a little closer to their wedding … Continue reading